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from Dennis L.
2011-01-03, 9:57 PM
Hi Bob,

Bob, hindi ka nag-iisa. I felt what you felt. Toss coin baga, to attend or not to attend, and that was what I was asking myself. Then I was waiting for the courage in me to tell Grace that  we will be having a class reunion and I wanted to attend.

And since you have spoken and chose to do it this way, through email. I have to add in my revelations to you guys that I almost gave up attending our reunion. First I have to got the courage to tell my wife of the upcoming event we will be having. And when I got the courage to tell Grace, a negative reaction was all I got. Of course I felt sad at first. But she explained it to me why.

Firstly, she cannot come with me since it will be the last week of the year. Year-ending for banks, are very busy. Bawal ang leave. Secondly, walang makakasama sa akin. Which means that I will travel on my own. That will be a very big problem for me. With my situation, you know now. Just imagine me travelling alone. Lastly, if ever I would push through with my plan and Grace okayed, how much would I spend on myself, my alalay if for 1 but I need to have 2 persons to accompany me. How much would I spend from Davao to Manila to Legaspi and vice versa. I don't have the courage to ask Grace to earmarked as early as May, since I am jobless. The ego in me creep in.

Being the "man", I hesistated to be insistent with Grace, cause in my mind and in my heart, I wanted really to attend our reunion. But the circumstances does not really favor my attendance. Besides all the negatives were with me, another thing that went through my mind is I will go te reunion with nothing to make "yabang", what I meant was I was not successful enough to be proud of you guys. Sa tagalog, wala akong maipagmamalaki sa inyo. What happen to me, no job, dependent with my wife. I ask myself ano naman ang maihaharap ko sa inyo?

Then, inspite of all of these unfavorable circumstances, as early as  April, I started to be always online to see what promo fare I could get from all the airlines. Kahit na alam kong malabo akong maka-attend ng reunion. There was a thread in our exchanges of emails that by hook or by crook you have to get me to attend our reunion, then Melo offered his services to drive me from Davao all the way to Legaspi. I was glad that you all wanted to went out of your ways just to have me to attend. But pride..oh pride...ayaw ko.

Many months passed. Still persistent, I go online looking for promo fares, baka naman magbago isip ni Grace, sabi ko sa sarili ko. It was already August, I felt desperate that I cannot attend cause if ever I will attend, by August I should have booked myself because I knew for a fact that November or December are peak season and I can not get a promo fare. Sept., Oct. and November came. I was really convinced I cannot and will not be able to attend our reunion.

November came Nov.1,2,3,4 until 27. Up to the last minute, Bob I tell you, I still I feel in my heart I will be able to attend. Ganun ka-tindi ang pagnanasa kong pumunta sa reunion. And on Nov. 27 of the evening my cousin from Manila came to Davao without notice. Together with his wife, his mother and our uncle. They just stayed for 2 days and on the third day went back to Manila.

I am very close to this cousin of mine, barkada ang turingan namin. He was already working and I was still a student at that time. Sa lahat ng bagay magkasama kami, inom, cine and of course chicks. We have not seen each other for more than 20 years. Their visit is biglaan, very short visit by Nov. 30 the'll be back to Manila.

My family and I  were scheduled to go to our farm on the 28th November to attend to our family reunion on my mother's side. Sinama namin sila sa Malita, sa farm. About 2-1/2 hours drive from the city. Anyway, I told them balikan naman tayo.

The day before they will left for Manila, our wives were shopping at SM Davao and my cousin and I were left at the car. And so we had the time to talk one-on-one, reminsicing ung mga kalokohan namin noon. Then he asked me, kumusta na? Eto ganun pa rin, still very young at nag-aaral pa ring maglakad, I replied. HAHAHAAHA. We both laugh. Then he told me, sabi ni Grace may reunion daw kayo sa Legaspi?. Just like that. And asked me if I am coming. I said, NO! Without asking WHY, he just said to me sagot ko pagpunta mo sa reunion. Isama mo si Grace at kung sino gusto mong isama.

I was really awed. I almost cried. Infact I posted in my facebook that I will be attending our reunion because somebody sponsored our trip. My facebook friends were really happy....congratulating me.

In short, I was really hoping I will be able to attend. Bob, i was thinking, whatever happens, I told myself, "BAKIT AKO MAHIHIYA SA INYO?' ANO BA ANG DAPAT KONG IKAHIYA KUNG ITO LANG ANG NAABOT KO AT NAGKAGANITO AKO?"

One last question I asked myself, "DOES IT MATTER?"

I posted in my facebook . LEGASPI HERE I COME !!!!. (Of course still with mixed emotions)

So Bob, don't hesitate. You still are very blessed. You have your very nice wife with you at andidito kami, kaming mga STAGS. If there's a line in a song " I left my heart in San Francisco, Bob this I will tell, I am a tagolog and bisaya by blood. (BISALOG)....I tell you..I DENNIS LAINEZ, left my heart in Legaspi City. It was the best moment in my whole life to be with you and all the Stags. I really missed you so much on the last day/night of our reunion. I missed our personal jokes. And I know deep inside me and you know that we both know, those were just cover-ups of our immaturity and shortcomings of our dreams, if I may say.

Cheers !!!

Dennis K. Lainez
Wheeling & Willing
(from Durian City)
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